How to be a Loser

Growing up we always has a funky old, copy of a copy or a copy, piece of paper on the fridge. Whenever, I tried to make and excuse or shirk my responsibilities, my father would make me go and read the old, and at the time very annoying sentiment. I haven't thought about it in a long time. I was visiting my parents and my younger brother was getting getting the, "Go-read-the-fridge" speech. I laughed inside. Then I read it. 

For while now I have been thinking of the the kind of person I am and the kind of person I want to become. I want to be a force for good. I want to be able to say I tried my hardest, I worked my tail off, and I achieved my goals.

Do you know people who make you feel drained or worked up after talking to them? Me too? I don't ever want to be that person. I my goal is to be the person you come to in order to feel uplift and love. I want to always be part of the solution. I have come to the conclusion that the easiest way to fail is in your attitude. Negatively kills dreams and destroys lives. May we all be the good in the world.

I thought I would share with you the attitude of a Winner vs. the attitude of loser? This was my "Lecture" on many many occasions. Which will you be? 

Winner vs. Loser

  by: Anonymous

The Winner is always part of the answer;

The Loser is always part of the problem.

The Winner is always has a program;

The Loser always has an excuse.

The Winner says,"Let me do it for you;

The Loser says;" That is not my job."

The Winner sees an answer for every problem;

The Loser sees a problem for every answer.

The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible";

The Loser says,"It may be possible but it is too difficult."

When a Winner makes a mistake, he says," I was wrong";

When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault."

 A Winner makes commitments;

A Loser makes promises.

Winners have dreams;

Loser have schemes.

Winners say," I must do something";

Losers say,"Something must be done."

Winners are a part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.

Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.

Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.

Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.

Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.

Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.

Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.

Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.

Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you

would, not want them to do to you";

Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."

Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.